
2022 ACECC Program
Day One: May 14, 2022
10:00 am cst Welcome
10:15 am cst Keynote Speaker:
Washington Rep. Roger Goodman
11:30 am cst Panel Discussions
When Coercive Control is Present Amongst Families: Understanding the dynamics of coercive control in families and it's generational impacts.
Panelists: Kathy Jones, Daniel Pollack, and Nneka Hall
Coercive Control - The Roots of Social Injustice: Understanding colonization, legislation, and oppression in the Americas. Solutions to learning from our past and improving our future.
Panelists: Rep. Roger Goodman, Jules Gill-Peterson, Dr. Mary Aspinall, and
Dr. Mary Kay Keller
12:30 pm cst Lunch and Learn
Financial Abuse
Angie Chait, Founder & Chair, Chait Commission on Financial Abuse
1:00 pm cst Roundtables
Dangerous Outcomes: The Long-terms Effect of Coercive Control in Pregnancy
Host: Nneka Hal, Founder, Mother Is Supreme
Presenter: TBA
Economic Abuse and its Impacts
Host: Angie Chait, Founder & Chair, Chait Commission on Financial Abuse
Presenter: Amy Durrence Esq., Director of Systems Change Initiatives, FreeFrom
Old and New: How the Abuse of Technology is used in Coercive Control:
Host: Maggie Kim
Presenter: Sheri Kurdakul, CEO and Founder, Victim’s Voice
2:15 pm cst Workshops
The Hidden Victims of Coercive Control: Children.
Johanna Crichton, M.A.
Innovative Solutions: Protecting Survivors When They Bank
Amy Durrence, Esq., Director of Systems Change Initiatives
Myths About Coercive Control: The Implications for Protective Parents and Children of Divorce
Glenda Lux, M.A., R. Psych Lux Psychology Services
Trish Guise, MBA, PDMC™ Divorce and Pre-Mediation Coach, Advocate
The Morality of Technology: Considerations When Recommending Tech Tools for Vulnerable Populations
Sheri Kurdakul, CEO and Founder, Victim’s Voice
3:30 pm cst Break (15 minutes)
3:45 pm cst Workshops
Coercive Control in the Courts
Alison Mahoney, ESq, Founder
Intimate Partner Violence Treatment Programs in Canada: Contexts and Observations
Dr. Mary Aspinall
When a Parent is a Covert Abuser: Recognizing and addressing the Impact of Coercive Control on Children
Ruth Darlene, M.A., Founder and Executive Director
Children’s Human Rights: Childism and the Impact of Coercion and Control In American Culture
Dr. Mary Kay Keller, M.P.A., PhD., CEIM, CFLE
5:00 pm cst End of day Wrap
Day Two: May 15, 2022
10:00 am cst Welcome
10:10 am cst Workshops
Coercive Control in Black Families/Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD, LPCC
The Maze of Coercive Control: it's not your Grandma's Wagon Wheel
Kathy Jones, DV Expert and Founder of Mother's
Double-edged Sword: Temporary Restraining Orders and Coercive Control
Thomas Song, Director of Legal Advocacy
11:25 am cst Special Panel TBA
12:30 pm cst Lunch
1:00 pm cst Panel Discussions
Institutionalized Coercive Control (Courts, Police, Religious & Social groups): How coercive control plays a role in society’s institutions, laws, and further traumatizes victims.
Panelists: Esther Macner, Marlana Christopher, and Sheri Kurdakul
Coercive Control in Child Sexual Abuse and Domestic Minor Sex Trafficking: Recognizing and criminalizing coercive controls to end Child Sexual Abuse and Domestic Minor Sex Trafficking.
Panelists: Daniel Pollack, Maraleee McClain, Wendy Murphy, and
Melanie Blow
2:15 Workshops
Survivor to Thriver: Healing Post Coercive Control
Suzanne Barton
It’s Not About Religion, Judge; It’s About Control” How Coercive Control Legislation Deters Gender- based Inequities Rooted in Religion
Esther Macner, Esq. Founder, Get Jewish Divorce
Addressing Intimate Partner Violence in Christian Homes
Jennifer Hart, MA, LPC, E-RYT, YACEP, Holistic Psychotherapist
Domestic Abuse, Sexual Exploitation and Coercive Control
Carrie McManus, Director of innovation and programs, Sagesse Domestic Violence Prevention Society
Andrea Silverstone, CEO, Sagesse Domestic Violence Prevention
3:45 pm cst Workshops
Coercive Control Screening & Support Processes
Carrie McManus, Director of innovation and programs, Sagesse Domestic Violence Prevention Society
Andrea Silverstone, CEO, Sagesse Domestic Violence Prevention Society
Survivors of a Coercive Control Parent - Perspective from a lived Experience
Nneka Hall and Janeli Hall
Counter-Parenting: How Abusers Utilize Their Children as Collateral Damage in War Against Their Adult Targets
Kathy Jones. DV Expert and Founder, Mother Justice Network
Coercive Control and the Family Courts - New Legislation
Maralee McLean, Author, DV Expert, Advocate
5:00 pm cst End of Conference Wrap
- Membership OfferSat, May 14Conferencia en línea
- Sun, Jan 31ACECC Screening of Finding Jenn's Voice
- Sun, Jan 31Conferencia en línea
2022 Workshops
The Hidden Victims of Coercive Control: Children.
Johanna Crichton, M.A.
A first-hand sharing of a Singapore case study on the long-term impacts that coercive control modeling on all of the victims in the home along with proven strategies of support during recovery. Johanna shares her lived experience of a time when 'her smile was stolen' by her perpetrator husband and replaced by a look of fear and exhaustion. This interactive webinar offers opportunities to learn and share supportive pathways that create positive change that lasts and open the social dialogue on the devastating impact of coercive control on all family survivors.
Double-edged Sword: Temporary Restraining Orders and Coercive Control
Thomas Song, Director of Legal Advocacy
The Model of Systemic Relation Violence helps to redefine
Rather than protecting victims, domestic violence laws are used by abusers as a "sword." Victims are further abused institutionally by the policies meant to protect them. Solutions must come from all levels to ensure that post-separation separation abuse is not get the court’s stamp of approval.
Coercive Control in the Courts
Allison Mahoney, ESq, Founder
Abusers often continue to exert control over victims in court proceedings. They cause unnecessary delays, purposefully increase legal fees, try to disparage and humiliate victims, and file petition after petition (or appeals) in order to harm their victims. Courts do not always--and sometimes cannot--stop these abusive litigation tactics, thereby allowing abusers to
weaponize legal proceedings that were intended to protect victims.
The Morality of Technology: Considerations When Recommending Tech Tools for Vulnerable Populations"
Sheri Kurdakul, CEO and Founder
Understanding and contextualizing experiences of coercive control can be quite challenging, especially for those who are not rooted in the work themselves. This presentation will provide an overview of the creation and implementation of the domestic abuse screening process by Sagesse. This process is centered around understanding coercive control within the unique context of each individual. We will discuss our review of other abuse and coercive control screenings and why we created a bespoke process.
Coercive Control Screening & Support Processes
Carrie McManus, Director of Innovation and Programs
Andrea Silverstone, CEO
Understanding and contextualizing experiences of coercive control can be quite challenging, especially for those who are not rooted in the work themselves. This presentation will provide an overview of the creation and implementation of the domestic abuse screening process by Sagesse. This process is centered around understanding coercive control within the unique context of each individual. We will discuss our review of other abuse and coercive control screenings and why we created a bespoke process.
Domestic Abuse, Sexual Exploitation and Coercive Control
Carrie McManus, Director of Innovation and Programs
Andrea Silverstone, CEO
The language and understanding of coercive control has begun to shift how we view and understand experiences of domestic abuse, deepening our capacity to understand the long term impacts of this crime often perpetrated against women and girls. This presentation will provide an overview of the linkages between practice, policy, legislation and personal lived experience of sexual exploitation and coercive control. We will explore the impacts of the push of human trafficking definitions and experiences on those experiencing domestic abuse and sexual exploitation.
“It’s Not About Religion, Judge; It’s About Control”
How Coercive Control Legislation Deters Gender- based Inequities Rooted in Religion
Esther Macner, ESQ., Founder/President
Coercive control plays a critical role in religious institutions of marriage and divorce yet it has not been recognized or redressed in the US, except to a limited extent in California and New York, because of the separation of religion and state. The First Amendment to the US constitution demarks a fine line between, on the one hand the prohibition against making laws that would promote religion and on the other assuring the free expression of religion.
Should conduct evidencing a pattern of coercive control be prohibited from consideration in US courts, only because it is driven by a religious based gendered inequity? How can coercive control legislation deter such abuse without violating the separation of church and state?
Innovative Solutions: Protecting Survivors When They Bank
Amy Durrence, Esq., Director of Systems Change Initiatives
Financial Abuse is the control, exploitation or sabotage of money and finances. Eighty-four percent of survivors of intimate partner violence identify not having enough money to support themselves or their children as their biggest barrier to safety. This problem is exacerbated by the fact that 58% of survivors in the U.S. – approximately 19.1 MM individuals – report that a harm-doer has monitored, accessed, withdrawn from, or otherwise controlled their bank account. This problem is worse for BIPOC survivors, who are 3x more likely than white survivors to report that they don’t have a bank account that they alone can access. Financial institutions have an incredible opportunity to support survivors in building financial security – 51% of U.S. survivors say they would seek support from their bank if they knew it was offered. Financial institutions also have a responsibility to provide more thoughtful support for survivors – with 1 in 4 cis-women and 1 in 2 trans folks being subjected to IPV in the U.S., every financial institution has customers that have been subjected to IPV, whether they know it or not.
When a Parent is a Covert Abuser: Recognizing and Addressing the Impact of Coercive Control on Children
Ruth Darlene, M.A., Founder and Executive Director
Covert abusers tend to have one face in public and another very different dark side behind closed doors which only their intimate partner and children ever see. In this presentation we will examine the characteristics, behaviors and tactics of the covert abuser, how they apply to parenting, the impact they have on children and suggestions for how to counter them.
Survivor to Thriver: Healing Post Coercive Control
Suzanne Barton
Maya Angelou once stated, "As soon as healing takes place, go out and heal somebody else." Suzanne Barton published her memoir under a pseudonym in 2018. Ms. Barton's objective was threefold: communicate to her estranged children her unconditional love, validate and share other protective mother's experiences, and promote the healing of relationships to self, as well as family, post-coercive control, and post-family court proceedings. This presentation will delve into the healing journey, of a protective mother, who experienced first-hand how to shift from victim to survivor, and as of this year--becoming a thriver.
Addressing Intimate Partner Violence in Christian Homes
Jennifer V. Hart, MA, LPC, E-RYT, YACEP,
Holistic Psychotherapist
Religion often is used as a shield to exact coercive control. This workshop will explore the various ways religious beliefs can exacerbate intimate partner abuse when not addressed from an experienced clinical framework.
- Membership OfferSat, May 14Conferencia en líneaEl control coercitivo es un delito y cinco países: Irlanda; Inglaterra; Escocia; Gales; y Francia. Se informa que hasta el 95% de los abusos son control coercitivo. Nuestras conferencias examinarán la amplitud del control coercitivo y cómo podemos acabar con él aquí en las Américas.
- Sun, Jan 31ACECC Screening of Finding Jenn's VoiceFinding Jenn’s Voice is a documentary film that examines homicide as a leading cause of death during pregnancy and explores the nature of abusive relationships, looking beyond the black eye.
- Sun, Jan 31Conferencia en líneaEl control coercitivo es un delito y cinco países: Irlanda; Inglaterra; Escocia; Gales; y Francia. Se informa que hasta el 95% de los abusos son control coercitivo. Nuestras conferencias examinarán la amplitud del control coercitivo y cómo podemos acabar con él aquí en las Américas.